Thursday, April 5, 2012

Bedtime Training Night 4 among other things in our life :)

Last night Kailee coughed a lot and ended up in her pack-n-play in our room at 3am.  Bedtime was successful though, which is what's most important.

Today, I took Kailee to the doctor (because her cough is still pretty bad, she's not eating much, and she's refusing to drink out of sippies--the sucking motion hurts if there's ear pain).  It turns out she has a double ear infection along with sinusitis, poor baby!  No wonder she's been super-fussy and not sleeping well.

Tonight we were a little late on bedtime--we did not head to the pharmacy to pick up Kailee's prescription until 8, making us unable to begin the bedtime routine until 8:40.  It is now 9:02 and both kids are out like a light.  Gavin protested a little bit, but was out within minutes of lying down.  Kailee took a bit longer, though less than 10 minutes for sure.

Brady is definitely going to appreciate the ease with which the kids go down now.  It's amazing how a little structure can change everything.  Now if only we could get past the terrible twos.  The doctor told me to give up on time out right now and just take away toys and whatnot.  So basically if she throws a book at my head (which likely will happen again), take it away.  If she hits, take away something else.  Time out will not be effective for awhile.  GREAT! 

XOXO,


UPDATE @9:38am (the next day) - The kids stayed asleep in their beds, in their rooms all night!  HOWEVER, both got up by 6:30am all cheerful.  Mind you, yesterday when I got them up at 6:30, neither wanted to cooperate at first.  I tried to ignore them but by 7 had to get up to feed them.  

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Night 3 of Bedtime Training

To begin, let me just brag about the kids!  Last night, Kailee woke up about 9pm for some water but she went right back to sleep in her big girl bed.  Both kids slept all night in their beds in their rooms and Kailee even got up cheerfully at 5:50.  She would have slept longer but I discovered Major took out his anger about Brady being gone by pooping ALL OVER Kailee's bedroom.  I woke her up while cleaning it up.

Right now it's 6:59pm and Kailee is in bed.  We got home, ate, and then Kailee proceeded to throw fit after fit and hit, kick, punch, throw things at us to the point that the only option is to put her to bed.  She's SUPER-fussy and my patience is gone.  I kept her in time out for 10 minutes waiting for her to stop screaming (the doctor says the two minutes cannot start until she stops screaming) and she NEVER STOPPED.  I captured a picture of her intentionally gagging herself.  I'm ready to pull my hair out so I got her out only to have to take another 5 full minutes to get her to calm down.
This is my 2-year-old intentionally gagging herself in time out.  Can we say drama queen?
As I type, Gavin is watching TV in his room and Kailee is fighting her early bedtime by rolling around and sitting up.  We'll see how this goes...

XOXO,


UPDATE @8:19pm - I allowed Kailee to get up and watch some DoodleBops at 7:30.  At 7:50, we went through our new bedtime routine with protests from both kids.  As of 8:15, both kids were out.  Hopefully they stay out all night!

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Night Two of Bedtime Training

First, let me start with an update over the entire night last night.  Basically, I was celebrating my success at 8:50pm when Kailee awoke with a horrible coughing fit--not the barking cough, just a regular old one.  She got very upset and would not calm down for about 20 minutes.  At that point I gave her the option of where to sleep and she chose her pack-n-play.  She proceeded to cough ALL.  NIGHT.  LONG.  I kept dozing off only to be awakened again by her coughing and crying.  Then I woke up low at 1:30am.  Needless to say, we were both a bit grumpy this morning, though Gavin was well-rested and cheerful as can be :).  That's the silver lining.

So tonight we had to do baths.  I started them at 7:15 to make sure we'd stay on track for getting in bed at 8.  We were waaaaay faster tonight (even with the bath) so both kids were in bed by 7:45.  It is currently 7:58 and Gavin is definitely asleep; unsurprisingly, Kailee is still stirring, though once she's out, she should sleep well.  The doctor gave the okay for her to have the cough medicine from when she had the flu a month ago while also taking the steroid for croup.  The sweetie-pie needs a good night's rest.  As I type, I'm watching her watch me.  Hopefully she's asleep by 8:30 so I can get in some me time and still go to bed early.

While I'm glad for the opportunity to sleep train, I miss Brady so much.  It's so lonely without him here :(.

XOXO,


UPDATE @8:22pm - Kailee took her time but she's asleep.  I'm hoping she sleeps better tonight having had cough medicine :).

Monday, April 2, 2012

When Brady is out of town...


It seems that whenever Brady is out of town, I find myself having to do some sort of sleep training for Kailee.  This time around, I'm doing it for both children.  We have gotten into the bad habit of allowing the kids to fall asleep watching movies.  Gavin is usually pretty good--he passes out on his own every night between 7 and 8:30pm.  Kailee is another story.  She often falls asleep in the pack-n-play in our bedroom at the foot of our bed.  She takes FOREVER to fall asleep!

So tonight, I decided to take us back to a bedtime routine.  We began at 7:30pm by going potty (or diaper changing) and putting on PJs.  Then brushing the teeth and reading 3 books (we each got to pick one, myself included).  Then they repeated a bedtime prayer after me, and off they went into their own "big boy" and "big girl" beds.

As I type, I am currently sitting in the hall outside both of their rooms so they can see I am still here.  This is more for Kailee than it is for Gavin because she turned on the waterworks.  I am hoping they both are asleep by 8:30 since I have to get them up between 6-6:30 tomorrow.  We have to be out the door by 7 in order to get Gavin to school on time without stress.

We'll see how this goes.  I have more patience for these battles than Brady does so I'm hoping to have us setup nicely with an established routine before his return on April 15th.

Wish me luck and pray for our success!

XOXO,


UPDATE @8:14pm - Both kids are snoring!  SUCCESS!  By the way, I'm scared to move from my spot in case I make too much noise and wake either or both.

This is what success looks like:


Sunday, April 1, 2012

911 on Palm Sunday on April 1st for the second time

This afternoon, Kailee awoke from her nap making a scary sound.  With every breath, she barked, cried, and grabbed at her neck and throat.  It was the scariest thing ever to come out of her mouth.  With my mom's encouragement (she had just arrived at our house to drop off Gavin), I called 911 and two wonderful sets of paramedics came to Kailee's rescue.  The first came from the fire station a block away--so thankful for its geographical convenience--and another from a further station but who specializes in small children emergencies.  Naturally when they arrived, Kailee stopped the hysterics, though she kept making the barking sound when she coughed.  The paramedics offered to transport us to the hospital though they felt we could easily make it to the hospital to get her checked out for croup as long as we kept her calm.  My mom and Gavin accompanied us in my car--we felt the ambulance ride would have the opposite effect.

So off we went to Children's Medical Center in Plano (again, SUPER-THANKFUL there's one nearby).  Once there, Kailee ran around, played and acted 100% well.  She did get upset when they checked her out, and in her hysterics demonstrated the barking sound.  As we suspected, she was determined to have croup and was prescribed a steroid.  They told us it was common for children to have an attack of croup at home and then arrive at the hospital appearing to be well because the AC in the car can help the symptoms.  CRAZY.

Croup is caused by a viral infection and is a symptom typical in babies and toddlers--Gavin is in fact right at the age where kids are less inclined to have croup.  She's contagious while she continues to bark (though she's not barking as much anymore) or if she develops a fever, as long as the fever persists.  So tomorrow we'll be staying home--did I mention Brady is out of town?  Yep, Brady had agreed to keep the kids anytime they were sick for the rest of the school year.  Well... He's out of town for a military class for 2 weeks.  Of course that's when something would go wrong!  YaYa took Gavin home with her tonight to help us out.  This way, Kailee can sleep in.  Otherwise, I'd have had to get her up to get Gavin to school by 7:45.

Unfortunately Kailee cannot begin her steroid until tomorrow.  When I picked it up this evening, the pharmacist warned me that the number one side effect is hyperactivity and that there was a slight possibility that it would keep her up all night.  He strongly recommended waiting until the morning.  We will heed his suggestion.  

So hopefully tonight won't be too bad for my sweetie-pie.  The nurse told us to run a hot bath and sit in the bathroom for her to inhale the warm air as one option if the barking gets worse during the night.  In the winter, it is actually recommended to go outside and have the child inhale the cold winter air to reduce the swelling in the throat.  A good friend of ours told us that the icebox works just as well; I will keep that in mind if necessary since there's definitely not cold winter air in Texas right now.

In my life, I have made three 911 calls and this is the first I actually remember.  The others, I have ZERO recollection of being on the phone with the 911 operator.  I was in survival mode, with lots of adrenaline, and have no memory of any part of the calls.  I remember dealing with the emergency crews in person but not the phone calls.  The first was when a child I was babysitting was attacked by a dog and the other was when we had our horrible car accident exactly 5 years ago today, on our way to church, on Palm Sunday (it's Palm Sunday today, creepy coincidence).  Needless to say, Palm Sundays falling on April 1st will always make me a little bit leery.

XOXO,

Sunday, March 25, 2012

DIY - Plastic Drawers: From blah to beautiful!

This weekend has been VERY busy.  Brady finally agreed to hire a maid so before she came, we cleaned out and reorganized our entire house. (Thanks to YaYa for helping with Gavin and Kailee's reorganization)!

Our children have tons of toys.  TONS!  Most of the clutter in our home is due to toys.  The cheapest way we have found to store them is to organize them in plastic 3-drawer sets from Wal-Mart.  The problem is, they aren't that attractive and while opaque, you can still kind of see things inside.  Thus, even when the toys are away, it still appears cluttery.

Then inspiration struck!  I used scrapbook paper to line the front of the drawers to make them pretty!  I attached it with scotch tape and masking tape.  Ta-da:
My first and my favorite!

Kailee loves butterflies

I had so much fun making these

This one is my other fave

Another small one

Her room with the decorated drawers!  It looks waaaaay better than before!

Now the inside is a mystery and her room looks neater than ever!  My next project is to get boyish ones for Gavin's drawers.

XOXO,

Thursday, March 15, 2012

The Sweetest Thing

Kailee has lately become very interested in my insulin pump site on my stomach.  She calls it my "boo-boo."  The other night, she asked to see my "boo-boo" and proceeded to gently touch it.  She then leaned over and kissed it.  It was the sweetest thing ever!  She knows that Mommy and Daddy kiss her boo-boos to make them all better and she wanted to return the favor for her Momma.  Love her!

XOXO,